「唯有不斷提升自己，才能讓自己成為情場上更優秀的男人！」

你是第三種優秀的男人嗎？

師父的話，我永遠銘記在心。沒有師父，就沒有今天的我。

我當年的把妹師父已經轉型成

在教女生如何倒追男生和駕馭男友（當然也包括慎防渣男）。

而我也慢慢從網絡約妹專家轉型成

塔羅愛情占卜靈療師。

我真是塔羅界的有緣人啊！我真是太有占卜天分了。

我意外結緣塔羅，之後發現自己有高度精準的占卜能力，只是目前解牌時還須要看課本以及各位老師指導。

1. Radiant Rider-Waite Tarot Deck

2. Angel Tarot Deck

3. Archangel Oracle Cards

我不須要對方任何資料就能憑空進行占卜。

目前還欠一副托特牌（Thoth Tarot），我就無敵了！

#Tarot #Healing

最近每天都在幫人進行初階占卜~

我早晚會直播塔羅占卜了！

一念天堂，一念地獄

一念天堂，一念地獄

一念之差就能把你導入不同的平行時空

在大千世界裡，

無數的過去、無數的現在、無數的未來

都在多重宇宙中交錯和重疊

這世界不只是有三維空間和一個時間軸

據說有高達十五個維度

猛獸獨行，牛羊成群。

你想成為怎樣的人，

就和怎樣的人在一起。

就如同你想判斷一個人的人品如何，

首先當然是看他的朋友是怎樣的人。

爛人只會和爛人一起混，

而真正優秀的強者，

除了不斷提升自己，

更會把周邊的人的水平也一起拉高。

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算命師說我38歲才會發財，

不管是不是真的，

我都想提前成願。

雖然說「千里馬常有，伯樂不常有」，

但我不信世上有所謂的「懷才不遇」，

如果無法找到令你發跡的環境，

那你就創造一個。

只要不斷推動正面因果，廣結善緣，

良好際遇是一樣可以在無意中

被創造出來的。

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一般人失戀或求愛不遂，

往往需要一段時間療傷。

而我卻已經修練到能無縫接軌，

以及一旦放棄就絕不回頭。

什麼「還能做朋友」或什麼「依然是朋友」這些都是低情商弱者會說的話，

我可不稀罕沒用的異性朋友。

#不是情人便是路人

反正不斷會有下一個對我更好的，

我致力做好自己就可以了，

最重要是雙方都要快樂。

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我情場修為最厲害的地方，

不是我的條件和真誠，

也不是我勾搭女人的能力，

更不是我有多好相處，

而是

我不畏懼失去任何人。

Human Evolutionary Theory

“If there is one thing the history of evolution has taught us it’s that life will not be contained. Life breaks free, it expands to new territories and crashes through barriers, painfully, maybe even dangerously. Life finds a way." - Dr Ian Maclolm (Jeff Goldblum) in Jurassic Park 

https://www.news18.com/news/buzz/this-rare-two-headed-six-legged-baby-turtle-is-surviving-against-all-odds-4327976.html

我研究愛情多年：兩性關係的基礎科學理論是人類演化學，進階理論當然是心理學。而女師父的教學有效地讓我明白男生看不見的女生觀點。https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0a7umFd5DM

Taiwan 1949

By the end of 1949, only Taiwan and Hainan were under the Republic of China (R.O.C.) rule. Chiang Kai-shek often lamented that the R.O.C. still controlled two-third of Chinese territories at the early 1949 and the loss of territories took place exponentially throughout the particular year of 1949.

 

He made too many mistakes in 1946, 1947, and 1948. Fairbank (1982) commented that economic mismanagement such as hyperinflation were the key cause of the fall of the R.O.C., and Chiang should have consolidated his forces in Zhejiang region, and not being contented to enjoy symbolic unification by holding many provincial capitals. These provincial capitals, which were usually held by nationalist cliques, quickly fell once they were besieged by the communist who controlled the surrounding rural areas. And even in Taiwan, until his death in 1975, he still continued to make mistakes like the White Terror, which undermined the legitimacy of the R.O.C. rule in Taiwan and inspired the Taiwanese Independence Movement from the R.O.C. Mao outlived him until 1976.

Even Chiang's mentor, Dr. Sun Yat-sen was also full of complaints: "How come the influence of the Nationalist Party of China was especially strong among overseas Chinese, but not in domestic China?" ---> Chiang added: "...and in domestic China, the party members only cared about their personal profit and not the ROC, which were established after the party had struggled so hard in order to remove the Manchu emperor and the remaining defiant warlords." <---

The Chinese Diaspora Viewpoint

I am well-versed with the divergent between the Chinese nationalist (ROC) viewpoint and the Chinese communist (PRC) viewpoint on the second phase of the Chinese Civil War (1946-1949). And, of course, do not forget the Nanking Decade (1927-1937) between the Northern Expedition (1926-1928) and the Second Sino-Japanese War (1937-1945). 

The Chinese diaspora viewpoint is gaining more importance, with the People's Republic of China (PRC)'s efforts of reaching out overseas Chinese residing abroad, while the Republic of China (ROC) in Taiwan is now often being neglected in the mainstream Sinology.

Nationalism as the formula of acceptance: In Taiwan, just like in China, I have written extensively about various thoughts of modern Chinese nationalism, because this is the ultimate formula of acceptance into the society.

https://www.bbc.com/news/av/magazine-40657878 ###

https://www.caixinglobal.com/2021-11-27/weekend-long-read-eminent-historian-wang-gungwu-on-sinic-civilizations-continental-and-maritime-interactions-101810352.html ###

Why do I always stress the importance of going beyond my comfort zone

Initially, I could only managed to know some renowned scholars. Then, I somehow found some ways to personally know those involved in politics, and eventually, some successful company directors. Had I been confined to my existing social circles in the physical world, no one will ever notice me at all.

The best thing about mastering the art of getting girls online is not even about girls at all, it is the fact that you will encounter many friends (mostly males) who are much more capable than yourself, and develop close personal relationships with them, and this is an impeccable way to greatly increase your market value. And of course, I shared my knowledge and expertise with them.

I had been struggling in the past, and now I became an expert in my former weakest field of social relationships. How to survive in a cybercommunity using social media apps is an art. You ought to develop personal charisma and some sort of leadership position, so that your talent could be unleashed and your value could be noticed by others.

https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/social-circle ###

順應天命，主導人生。

這幾年的疫情真的幫了我一個大忙，讓我有更多的時間提升我在好幾個台灣平台的人氣，令我的網路交友實力達到史上最高點，而且都能順利轉戰現實世界，一勞永逸解決了我的社交困境。這一套學問和技巧，不寫成書就浪費了。

Please Stop the Nice Guy Syndromes

"Based on historical data, most scholars would agree that the postwar affluent lifestyle and the proliferation of mass media were the main drivers behind the fast spread of nice guy syndromes from the West to the East, causing the greatest increase in the number of nice guys among the global male population for the first time in the course of human history."

I want to write a PhD thesis about "the interaction between patriarchy and feminism in shaping the nice guy syndromes and eventual loss of male attractiveness in the eyes of the females." 

Example of hypothesis: If I am a female, I do not want a slavish and submissive male partner; I want someone with a strong character, with leadership capability, with the resource and ability to defend and protect our family and children in the future. 

Keywords: Alpha male, beta male, sigma male, gamma male, delta male, omega male, blue pill, red pill, relationship management, dating advisory

Example of research question: Are the nice guy syndromes resulted from mass media and the female dominance in the education industry?

不再自我設限：現代「網路交友迷思」與二戰時期的「倖存者偏誤」

反對網路交友的人，只看到網路詐騙問題，卻忽略了一個事實：網絡找到另一半的機會，其實遠遠高於現實中認識，因爲現實生活圈有界限，而網路世界則沒有。

這種忽略，就是所謂的「倖存者偏誤」，也就是二戰時期，你只看到回來的飛機的機翼千瘡百孔，結果錯誤地忙著去加強機翼的防護，卻忘了真正應該加強的是機尾和引擎和駕座，因為被擊中這些部位的飛機，都回不來了，因此你根本沒機會看到他哪裡被擊中。

只要加強機尾和引擎和駕座，任由機翼被擊中，飛機一樣能回來。

若只加強機翼，代表機尾和引擎和駕座被命中的機率很高，結果飛機回不來了，也不會有機會給你看見他被擊中哪個部位。

重點是飛機要能回來，被擊中哪個部位并不重要。

因此，只要能避免被騙，就能在網路世界取得成功，並順利轉戰現實。

當然，到最後還是一樣要從網路世界中回歸到現實世界。網路只是一種導入現實的工具，是一座橋梁。

既然有一座橋等你自行使用，你又何必苦苦靠游泳來過河呢？

https://www.gvm.com.tw/article/amp/70337 ###

不再自我設限：現代「網路交友迷思」與二戰時期的「倖存者偏誤」

The Survivorship Bias and Online Dating

(Not everyone can understand this simple idea derived from a World War II example)

Many talked about the risk of scamming in online dating, but they neglected the lack of opportunities in real life social settings.

What if I am able to eliminate the risk of online scamming, while greatly expanding the online opportunities and transform them into real life relationships in real life settings?

Online Social Platform

As you usually cannot decide who you will encounter in the physical world, there is a high chance that you are NEVER able to meet the "right person" in the "right place" at the "right time" in real life social settings. As such, my research team and I have some carefully tested and systematically implemented suggestions on the three stages/types of online dating methods:

1. Traditional dating apps like Tinder: High risk and low efficiency (most people either succeed here or fail completely and therefore stay single forever)

2. Cyber-communities like LINE group and FB group: Low risk and low efficiency (here it is relatively easy to know a lot of friends with similar interests but not love relationships)

3. Social platforms (I am not going to reveal my examples): Low risk and high efficiency (This is my secret to success, but again, this is not suitable for everyone, but I would say that you can really know a lot of people, escape your confinement of comfort zone, greatly expand your pool of candidates, and enjoy the ABILITY TO CHOOSE who shall be your friends, and NOT TO BE CHOSEN at the mercy of others)

The major advantage is that it is a combination of the two above options; it is a mixture of traditional dating apps as well as cyber-communities, where everyone knows each other, and everyone can freely communicate with anyone. In case someone does something unacceptable, everyone will know about it. In case someone is popular, he/she shall become highly sought after!