文者言情 Praxis Translation: April 2022

Friday 29 April 2022

順應天命，主導人生。

這幾年的疫情真的幫了我一個大忙，讓我有更多的時間提升我在好幾個台灣平台的人氣，令我的網路交友實力達到史上最高點，而且都能順利轉戰現實世界，一勞永逸解決了我的社交困境。這一套學問和技巧，不寫成書就浪費了。

Thursday 28 April 2022

Please Stop the Nice Guy Syndromes

"Based on historical data, most scholars would agree that the postwar affluent lifestyle and the proliferation of mass media were the main drivers behind the fast spread of nice guy syndromes from the West to the East, causing the greatest increase in the number of nice guys among the global male population for the first time in the course of human history."

I want to write a PhD thesis about "the interaction between patriarchy and feminism in shaping the nice guy syndromes and eventual loss of male attractiveness in the eyes of the females."

Example of hypothesis: If I am a female, I do not want a slavish and submissive male partner; I want someone with a strong character, with leadership capability, with the resource and ability to defend and protect our family and children in the future.

Keywords: Alpha male, beta male, sigma male, gamma male, delta male, omega male, blue pill, red pill, relationship management, dating advisory

Example of research question: Are the nice guy syndromes resulted from mass media and the female dominance in the education industry?

Wednesday 27 April 2022

不再自我設限：現代「網路交友迷思」與二戰時期的「倖存者偏誤」

反對網路交友的人，只看到網路詐騙問題，卻忽略了一個事實：網絡找到另一半的機會，其實遠遠高於現實中認識，因爲現實生活圈有界限，而網路世界則沒有。

這種忽略，就是所謂的「倖存者偏誤」，也就是二戰時期，你只看到回來的飛機的機翼千瘡百孔，結果錯誤地忙著去加強機翼的防護，卻忘了真正應該加強的是機尾和引擎和駕座，因為被擊中這些部位的飛機，都回不來了，因此你根本沒機會看到他哪裡被擊中。

只要加強機尾和引擎和駕座，任由機翼被擊中，飛機一樣能回來。

若只加強機翼，代表機尾和引擎和駕座被命中的機率很高，結果飛機回不來了，也不會有機會給你看見他被擊中哪個部位。

重點是飛機要能回來，被擊中哪個部位并不重要。

因此，只要能避免被騙，就能在網路世界取得成功，並順利轉戰現實。

當然，到最後還是一樣要從網路世界中回歸到現實世界。網路只是一種導入現實的工具，是一座橋梁。

既然有一座橋等你自行使用，你又何必苦苦靠游泳來過河呢？

https://www.gvm.com.tw/article/amp/70337 ###

不再自我設限：現代「網路交友迷思」與二戰時期的「倖存者偏誤」

The Survivorship Bias and Online Dating

(Not everyone can understand this simple idea derived from a World War II example)

Many talked about the risk of scamming in online dating, but they neglected the lack of opportunities in real life social settings.

What if I am able to eliminate the risk of online scamming, while greatly expanding the online opportunities and transform them into real life relationships in real life settings?

Online Social Platform

As you usually cannot decide who you will encounter in the physical world, there is a high chance that you are NEVER able to meet the "right person" in the "right place" at the "right time" in real life social settings. As such, my research team and I have some carefully tested and systematically implemented suggestions on the three stages/types of online dating methods:

1. Traditional dating apps like Tinder: High risk and low efficiency (most people either succeed here or fail completely and therefore stay single forever)

2. Cyber-communities like LINE group and FB group: Low risk and low efficiency (here it is relatively easy to know a lot of friends with similar interests but not love relationships)

3. Social platforms (I am not going to reveal my examples): Low risk and high efficiency (This is my secret to success, but again, this is not suitable for everyone, but I would say that you can really know a lot of people, escape your confinement of comfort zone, greatly expand your pool of candidates, and enjoy the ABILITY TO CHOOSE who shall be your friends, and NOT TO BE CHOSEN at the mercy of others)

The major advantage is that it is a combination of the two above options; it is a mixture of traditional dating apps as well as cyber-communities, where everyone knows each other, and everyone can freely communicate with anyone. In case someone does something unacceptable, everyone will know about it. In case someone is popular, he/she shall become highly sought after!

Tuesday 26 April 2022

My Key to Acceptance

Using rigorous research methods, it is quite easy for me to become popular in two social apps in Taiwan. My key to acceptance is to make friends online and turn them into real life relationships. DO NOT waste time talking to colleagues/classmates/anyone I know from the physical world.

Monday 18 April 2022

小鹿官方认证团队 ~ 灵姐

我已经在无意中告诉某人：她的出现，令我改变了不少。

我会延续各位爱情老师的理念，把我毕生所学发扬光大，以解救广大情场苍生。

Saturday 16 April 2022

一局定江山，優於萬局勝負不分的長期迷茫。

努力做最好的自己，因為只有優秀的人，才配得上幸福。我知道你無法超越全世界，但你肯定可以勝過昨日的自己。

所謂「要擁有必先懂失去怎接受」，因此有時缺憾也是一種美。

在擁擠街道旁的無人一角。

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一局定江山，優於萬局勝負不分的長期迷茫。

小青青感言：

正所謂情場如戰場，

找對象其實也是一樣的道理，

集中力量努力爭取自己最喜歡的對象，

終究勝過獲得幾萬個不怎麼喜歡的對象。

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言之有理，自身能力和條件和態度是一回事；

而外在環境和際遇和契機又是另一回事。

「因為無法改變環境而改變自己」

這句話只說對了一半，

因為真正的改變是

「把不好的自己和不利的環境都換掉」。

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過去的苦難成就了今天的美好。

再過一些時日，

或許若干年後，

但願你我都能站在高處說：

「憶往昔滄桑歲月，看今朝錦繡河山」

Sunday 10 April 2022

愛情的真實面貌是「價值鬥爭」。

在把妹的旅程中，最大的敵人，永遠都不是女生，也不是情敵，而是如何勝過昨日的自己。

日子久了，你不難發現一個高階領悟：身爲高價值男人，我們要慶幸把妹是一件不容易的事，有時甚至是件非常困難的事，因爲一門知識或技巧，如果太容易被學會，或者被一般普通人掌握，那我們的競爭者將不計其數，使得我們的處境更加困難。

事實證明，不是每個男人都能晉級到這個水平，何況我天生不具備壞男人性格，而是靠後天勤奮瘋狂學習，以及身經百戰來練成的。

The notion of nationalism is always exclusionary.

It is the rejection of the rule by the "out-group," and the struggle to preserve the homogeneity of the membership of the "in-group."

Only when there is an outsider one can realize his own identity in relation to his membership of which the group he belongs to.

Had there been no perceived differences among the population at any given locality, it is almost guaranteed that scarcity of resources shall eventually result in competition for survival. As such, the subsequent subdivision of that population into various groups is inevitable, simply due to the human desire for collective survival.

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When I first posted this comment in public on an academic-oriented social media platform, initially I expected someone will come out and somewhat try to refute my comment, either in part or in whole, but it turned out that a form of constructive discussion took place instead.

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半夜起來，一想到還有很多稿件要處理就心煩，然後突發奇想就多寫一小段部落格。以我的寫作速度，一天寫五千到一萬字都不是問題。

不過我總是覺得以我的才華，我應該還能有更好更高的成就。什麼「千里馬常有，伯樂不常有」/「懷才不遇」都不是藉口，良好際遇是需要自己創造的，就像我當年從一個完全沒有異性朋友的困境，用意想不到的方式來創造源源不絕的桃花一樣。